DINK continue to be childless?
(Chinanews.cn)
Updated: 2006-07-03 14:31
China's DINK class (Double Income No Kids) began more than twenty years ago.
Just when people are beginning to acknowledge and accept the existence of DINK
families, DINKs themselves began to regret their choices and one can observe the
phenomenon of "post-35 childbearing"—DINK women after passing 35 realizing that
if they were to postpone having children they might never become mothers. Or
they realize that without children in their midst, their flat marital life would
drift towards isolated quietude and therefore they gave up their DINK
lifestyle.
A DINK family shopping in the street.
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Chunmei, 43 years old, is professional manager with a son 2 years and six
months old. She said she originally chose to be a DINK. When she accidentally
became pregnant and was told that she might never conceive again if she chose to
abort the fetus, she made the decision to have the child.
Wen Yu, 41 years old, is free-lance writer with a two-year old daughter. She
said she chose DINK to begin with but realized her choice required much courage
because many people could not understand her decision and were talking behind
her back. After toughing it for eight years she could not hold on and also
realized if she persisted she would never have a chance to choose to bring a new
life to this world. She gave up and gave in.
The emergence in China of the phenomenon of a return of DINK family to
tradition is caused by different psychological frame of mind induced by
different age groups. Accelerated societal competition made it easy for people
to feel hatred and anxiety, resulting in loss of psychological balance. Only a
triangular family model can form stability, can build a platform to bear and
neutralize these negative psychological feelings. A healthy, complete and happy
family is man's heaven and woman's Eden.
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