The high price of love
By Qiu Lin (China Daily)Updated: 2007-02-06 11:06
To marry for money or for love, this old question is taking on new meaning for Chinese youth in today's consumption saturated culture. A post entitled "Will you marry your boyfriend with no house or car?" at the popular portal website Tianya forum, has triggered a hot debate.
Posted last October, there were more than 18,000 visitors to the site, and more than 500 replies in just a couple of days.
"It's a catch-22. If you're marrying for money, you feel like you're selling yourself. If you walk into a marriage for love, in five or 10 years, you will realize that love doesn't pay your house mortgage, your phone, gas, or electricity bills," says Marsha Zhao, a communication officer for a foreign company in Beijing.
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Millionaires looking for pretty partners gather at the "Love Boat" party on "Captain One" cruise in Shanghai last November. [China Daily] |
"Think about this," she says. "My husband has less of everything than I do. In education, he holds a bachelor's, I have a master's. He makes much less money than I do, and he doesn't even have a permanent residence card for Beijing. You know how much your parents care about that!"
Earning 100,000 yuan ($12,500) a year, 50 percent more than most of her peers working as newspaper reporters, the 25-year-old says buying a house or having a baby is not a priority on their agenda.
"We want our own apartment but the prices are outrageous. We just cannot
afford one." The young couple now live in an apartment provided by Zhao's
parents.
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