ocpaul20 （UK）

I don't know how Chinese men think, but Europeans don't really mind if a woman already has kids from her first marriage. Most of my friends are divorced twice already and all of them have kids from a previous marriage. I think the important thing is to take your time and not rush into marriage again. If the man loves you, he'll wait until you're ready to marry him. If he can't wait then he's not worth it.

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