Chris (US)

I've been dating a beautiful single mom with two beautiful girls whom I love to death. We've been together for eight months now and everything seems great. But I do have an issue in trying to deal with the fact of being the second man in their lives. Sometimes my belief in having a family with kids who are yours and not having some other guy in your life causes conflicts in my relationship. I really want to make this work, but don't seem to have found the answer yet.

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